Mediation
You both make the decisions.
Collaborative and child-focused.
Much quicker.
More cost-effective.
Flexible and tailored to your family.
Court
A judge makes the decisions for you.
Formal and adversarial.
Can take months.
More expensive.
Less flexible.
When might court be necessary?
Domestic Abuse or safety concerns
If you or your children are at risk, court may be the most appropriate route.
One person won't engage
If the other person refuses to take part in mediation.
How long will everything take?
Some orders (e.g. non-molestation or prohibited steps) can only be made by a court.
If you're making most types of application to the Family Court, you'll usually need to attend a MIAM first (unless an exemption applies).
Before Your Apply To Court
A MIAM helps you explore options and understand the process.
It may help you avoid court and reach agreement.
If court is the right option, we'll help you understand the next steps.
Why Families Choose Pax Mediation
14,000+ Families Supported
50+ Years Combined Experience
FMCA Accredited Family Mediators
Legal Aid & £500 Voucher Scheme Available
Online & In-Person Flexible Appointments
What Our Clients Say
"We thought court was our only option, but after speaking to Pax Mediation we realised there was another way. Mediation helped us reach an agreement without the stress of court proceedings."
"The mediator explained the court process clearly and honestly. We never felt pressured into mediation, but having all of our options explained gave us the confidence to make the right decision for our family."
"I was preparing to make a court application, but my MIAM helped me understand the alternatives. We were able to resolve things much sooner than I ever expected."