What are you worried about?
What should happen first?
Do I need a solicitor?
Do I have to go to court?
What about the children?
What happens to our finances?
How long will everything take?
The good news is that there is no single "right" way to navigate separation. Every family is different, but many families follow a similar journey.
This roadmap explains the steps involved and how family mediation can help.
Understanding The Journey
Separation
When a relationship ends, it can feel as though there are a hundred decisions to make at once. This stage often feels emotional and uncertain, but understanding the process can help you move forward with greater confidence.
Understand Your Options
There are several ways families can resolve issues including mediation, solicitor negotiation and court proceedings.
Attend a MIAM
A Mediation Information and Assessment Meeting is usually the first step for people considering mediation.
Mediation Sessions
Discussions may focus on arrangements for children, finances or both.
Child Inclusive Mediation (where appropriate)
Children can share their views in a safe, supported way.
Reaching Agreements
Families work towards fair and practical agreements for the future.
Legal Advice (if needed)
Many people choose to obtain legal advice after mediation.
Consent Order (if needed)
Make your agreement legally binding with a Consent Order.
Moving Forward
Families adapt and review arrangements as circumstances change.
Where Are You in Your Journey?
We've Just Separated
Find out what steps to consider first and understand your available options.
Why Families Choose Pax Mediation
14,000+ Families Supported
50+ Years Combined Experience
FMCA Accredited Family Mediators
Legal Aid & £500 Voucher Scheme Available
Online & In-Person Flexible Appointments
What Our Clients Say
"The mediator made our son feel so comfortable. His input gave us the direction we needed to co-parent more effectively."
"Relaxed environment, very open communication. Easy to speak to the mediator. Would recommend their services."
"Oliver was amazing. He talked me through the whole process and answered all my questions. Very patient when my daughter needed help and understanding."