Mediation Information and Assessment Meeting.
WHAT IS A MIAM?
A MIAM is usually the first step before mediation and is normally required before making certain family court applications about children or finances, unless an exemption applies.
It gives you the opportunity to understand your options, discuss whether mediation may be suitable and decide what to do next.
What happens at a MIAM?
At a MIAM you can:
explore whether mediation could help you resolve issues without going to court
understand your options
Where appropriate, have the relevant section of a court application form signed by an FMCA-accredited mediator.
What We'll Talk About
Children
Living arrangements, time with each parent and what's best for your children.
Finances
An overview of financial issues and how they can be resolved.
Court
General information about the MIAM requirement and possible next steps.
Mediation
How mediation works and how it can help you reach agreement.
Safety
We'll always consider safety and ensure appropriate support
is in place.
Legal Aid
Information about eligibility for Legal Aid and available funding options.
Frequently Asked Questions
What is a MIAM?
A MIAM (Mediation Information and Assessment Meeting) is an individual meeting with a family mediator. It gives you the opportunity to learn about mediation, discuss your situation and explore whether mediation is suitable for you and your family.
How long does a MIAM take?
A MIAM typically lasts around 45 minutes, giving you plenty of time to discuss your circumstances and ask questions.
What happens after the MIAM?
If mediation is suitable and everyone agrees to take part, we can arrange mediation sessions. If mediation is not suitable or does not go ahead, your mediator will explain the possible next steps and, where appropriate, sign the relevant section of the court application form.
Can I attend a MIAM online?
Yes. We offer MIAMs online via secure video appointment, as well as face-to-face at our North East offices.
Will the mediator take sides?
No. Family mediators are impartial. Their role is to help you understand your options and, if mediation proceeds, facilitate constructive discussions. They don't take sides or make decisions for you.
Do we attend the MIAM together?
No. MIAMs are usually held separately, so you'll have your own confidential meeting with the mediator before the other person is invited to attend their MIAM.
Is attending a MIAM compulsory?
If you're making certain applications to the Family Court, you'll usually need to attend a MIAM unless an exemption applies, such as domestic abuse or urgency. Even if court isn't being considered, many people choose to attend a MIAM to understand their options.
Can I get Legal Aid for a MIAM?
Yes. If you or the other person qualifies for Legal Aid, you may not have to pay for your MIAM. If only one person qualifies, Legal Aid can also cover the first mediation session for both people. We will assess eligibility and explain what funding applies.
What should I bring to my MIAM?
You don't need to prepare anything special. If your case involves finances, it can be helpful to have a general understanding of your financial situation. We'll explain everything you need during the meeting.
How much does a MIAM cost?
Our current private MIAM fee is £140 online or £150 face-to-face. If you're eligible for Legal Aid, your MIAM may be free of charge.
Why Families Choose Pax Mediation
14,000+ Families Supported
50+ Years Combined Experience
FMCA Accredited Family Mediators
Legal Aid & £500 Voucher Scheme Available
Online & In-Person Flexible Appointments
What Our Clients Say
"I was really nervous before my MIAM, but my mediator immediately put me at ease. I left feeling much clearer about my options and what would happen next."
"The MIAM helped me understand that going to court wasn't my only option. It was informative, supportive and there was no pressure to make any decisions on the day."
"I expected the meeting to be intimidating, but it was simply a conversation. Everything was explained clearly, and I felt listened to throughout."