When families experience change such as separation, conflict, or different expectations, communication is often the first thing to suffer. This is true whether a family lives privately or in the public eye. High profile families such as the Beckhams are frequently discussed in the media but what is often overlooked is that the challenges they face are not unique. Differences in perspective, generational expectations and emotional pressure can affect all families at various ti

When parents separate, discussions about shared care, time with children , and  child maintenance  are often some of the most emotionally charged and complex issues to navigate. Many parents arrive at mediation with strong views about what feels fair, what they believe reflects their involvement, and what they hope arrangements will look like going forward. These conversations are not unusual — and they often reflect deeper concerns about parenting identity, financial pressu

Artificial intelligence (AI) tools have become a normal part of daily life. From writing emails to organising finances, AI can offer quick and convenient support. Increasingly, people navigating separation or divorce are also turning to AI — to draft messages, organise thoughts, or research what the law says. At Pax Mediation, we recognise that AI can be a helpful tool, but also a risky one, particularly during emotionally charged disputes. Used thoughtfully, AI can support

Joe Swash’s recent BBC documentary focusing on young dads shines a powerful light on a group whose experiences are often overlooked. The programme follows young fathers navigating parenthood, relationships, and co-parenting — frequently against a backdrop of conflict, misunderstanding, and limited support. What stands out throughout the documentary is that many of the challenges these young dads face is not about a lack of love or commitment to their children. Instead, they

When people are separating or considering family mediation, they may come across different terms, titles, and accreditations. One of the most common is  FMCA accreditation , which stands for  Family Mediation Council Accredited . This blog provides general information about what FMCA accreditation means, why professional standards matter in family mediation, and how this accreditation fits within the wider mediation framework in England and Wales. This blog is for general inf

Separation can be an emotionally demanding time, often involving difficult conversations and uncertainty about the future. One of the most significant and sensitive issues many separating couples face is  what happens to the family home . For some, the home represents financial security. For others, it carries emotional meaning, stability, and continuity — particularly where children are involved. This article provides  general information about common options  relating to th

When parents separate, one of the hardest and most emotionally charged questions is how children should spend their time between two homes. Many parents arrive at discussions — or disputes — with a strong belief that  50:50 shared care is the fairest and safest option. That belief often comes from a very understandable place. Parents worry about: losing time with their children being marginalised or replaced being seen as “less important” fairness and equality what others (in

If you’re going through separation, divorce, or negotiating child arrangements, one of the biggest stumbling blocks for many parents is blame. It colours conversations, traps emotions, and slows progress. It can keep families stuck in patterns of conflict. At Pax Mediation, we understand that letting go of blame isn’t about giving up your feelings or saying “it wasn’t my fault.” It’s about choosing a path that helps everyone move forward, especially the children. Inspired by

When a relationship ends, navigating issues like child arrangements, co-parenting, and finances can feel overwhelming. You might find yourself stuck in fear, regret, or “what ifs.” The documentary Brené Brown: The Call to Courage makes a powerful point: real strength isn’t about avoiding discomfort; it’s about choosing courage over comfort . Understanding Brené Brown's Insights Brené Brown is a renowned research professor, bestselling author, and respected speaker. She is k

It can feel frustrating to receive a C100 court application when you haven’t yet attended mediation. This guide explains why that happens, what it means for you, and how mediation can still help you move forward — even after a C100 has been issued.