Family Mediation North East
Family Mediation North East
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DOMESTIC ABUSE
At Pax Mediation, the safety and well-being of everyone involved in the mediation process are our top priorities. We recognise that domestic abuse can create unique challenges and concerns for families, and we are committed to providing a safe, confidential, and supportive environment.
This page outlines how we address domestic abuse concerns in the context of family mediation, ensuring that safety and appropriate support measures are in place every step of the way.
WHAT IS DOMESTIC ABUSE?
Domestic abuse refers to a pattern of behaviour intended to control, intimidate, or harm another person. It can take many forms, including:
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Physical abuse: Acts of violence or physical harm.
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Emotional and psychological abuse: Manipulation, intimidation, or threats that impact mental health.
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Financial abuse: Controlling or limiting access to money and resources.
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Coercive control: A pattern of controlling behaviour that removes a person’s independence.
At Pax Mediation, we take all forms of domestic abuse seriously and follow strict safeguarding procedures to ensure the safety of all clients.
HOW MEDIATION ADDRESSES DOMESTIC ABUSE CONCERNS
Mediation is not always suitable in cases of domestic abuse. However, if deemed appropriate, specific measures are taken to ensure a safe and constructive process:
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1. Initial Safeguarding Assessment
During the Mediation Information and Assessment Meeting (MIAM), our mediators conduct a thorough assessment to assess whether mediation is suitable.
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If domestic abuse is identified, we may recommend alternative pathways, such as legal or support services.
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Mediation will only proceed if both parties feel safe and appropriate measures are in place.
2. Separate Sessions (Shuttle Mediation)
In cases where mediation is suitable, if needed we can arrange shuttle mediation, where both parties are in separate rooms or attend sessions online. This ensures no direct contact between participants.
3. Confidentiality and Safety
Mediation discussions are confidential unless there is a risk of harm to a person or child, in which case appropriate authorities will be informed.
4. Tailored Support and Referrals
Our mediators can provide referrals to trusted domestic abuse support services, legal aid, or counselling to ensure you have the help you need.
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Book a MIAM to discuss your situation today.
WHEN MEDIATION MAY NOT BE SUITABLE
Mediation may not be appropriate if:
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There is an ongoing risk of harm to a party or child.
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Either party feels unsafe participating in the process.
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A power imbalance makes fair and open discussions impossible.
In such cases, we will guide you toward alternative resources, such as legal aid, social services, or domestic abuse organisations.
DOMESTIC ABUSE SERVICES
If you or someone you know is experiencing domestic abuse, it’s essential to seek support. Here are trusted organisations that can help:
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Refuge. Provides emergency accommodation, support, and advocacy for survivors of domestic abuse. Visit Refuge here.
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National Domestic Abuse Helpline. A free 24-hour helpline offering confidential advice and support. Call 0808 2000 247. Learn more here.
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Women’s Aid. Offers resources, information, and support for women and children experiencing domestic abuse. Access Women’s Aid resources here.
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Men’s Advice Line. Provides confidential advice for men experiencing domestic abuse. Call 0808 801 0327. Visit the Men’s Advice Line here.
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Victim Support. Offers emotional and practical support for all victims of crime, including domestic abuse. Learn more about Victim Support here.
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BAWSO. Specialist support for Black and Asian women facing domestic abuse, offering culturally sensitive resources and advocacy. Learn more here.
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LGBT Domestic Abuse Support. Provides assistance for LGBT+ individuals experiencing domestic violence, offering inclusive and confidential advice. Find support here.
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N.C.D.V. (National Centre for Domestic Violence). Helps victims of domestic abuse obtain legal protection through free, fast injunction services. Access their services here.
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Finding Legal Options for Women (F.L.O.W.) Offers guidance and legal support for women facing domestic violence, helping them understand their options and rights. Learn more about F.L.O.W. here.
HOW PAX MEDIATION SUPPORTS YOU
At Pax Mediation, we are dedicated to providing a safe and supportive environment for all clients, particularly in sensitive cases involving domestic abuse. Here’s how we help:
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Thorough Safeguarding Assessments: Ensuring mediation is only pursued if it is suitable and appropriate.
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Confidentiality and Privacy: Maintaining a secure and respectful space for discussions.
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Referrals to Support Services: Connecting you with trusted organisations for additional help and protection.
Learn more about our mediation services here.
"At the most difficult of times the mediation felt so important and allowed us to begin moving on."
“Mediation helped us create a parenting plan that worked for everyone. It made co-parenting much less stressful.”
“The mediator kept us focused on our children’s needs, and we reached an agreement we’re all happy with.”
Take The First Step Today
If you’re experiencing domestic abuse or have concerns about safety during mediation, contact Pax Mediation to discuss your options. We’re here to help you find the right path forward, whether through mediation or alternative resources.
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