When parents separate, one of the hardest and most emotionally charged questions is how children should spend their time between two homes. Many parents arrive at discussions — or disputes — with a strong belief that 50:50 shared care is the fairest and safest option. That belief often comes from a very understandable place. Parents worry about: losing time with their children being marginalised or replaced being seen as “less important” fairness and equality what others (in

If you’re going through separation, divorce, or negotiating child arrangements, one of the biggest stumbling blocks for many parents is blame. It colours conversations, traps emotions, and slows progress. It can keep families stuck in patterns of conflict. At Pax Mediation, we understand that letting go of blame isn’t about giving up your feelings or saying “it wasn’t my fault.” It’s about choosing a path that helps everyone move forward, especially the children. Inspired by

When a relationship ends, navigating issues like child arrangements, co-parenting, and finances can feel overwhelming. You might find yourself stuck in fear, regret, or “what ifs.” The documentary Brené Brown: The Call to Courage makes a powerful point: real strength isn’t about avoiding discomfort; it’s about choosing courage over comfort . Understanding Brené Brown's Insights Brené Brown is a renowned research professor, bestselling author, and respected speaker. She is k

It can feel frustrating to receive a C100 court application when you haven’t yet attended mediation. This guide explains why that happens, what it means for you, and how mediation can still help you move forward — even after a C100 has been issued.