Artificial intelligence (AI) tools have become a normal part of daily life. From writing emails to organising finances, AI can offer quick and convenient support. Increasingly, people navigating separation or divorce are also turning to AI — to draft messages, organise thoughts, or research what the law says. At Pax Mediation, we recognise that AI can be a helpful tool, but also a risky one, particularly during emotionally charged disputes. Used thoughtfully, AI can support

Joe Swash’s recent BBC documentary focusing on young dads shines a powerful light on a group whose experiences are often overlooked. The programme follows young fathers navigating parenthood, relationships, and co-parenting — frequently against a backdrop of conflict, misunderstanding, and limited support. What stands out throughout the documentary is that many of the challenges these young dads face is not about a lack of love or commitment to their children. Instead, they

When people are separating or considering family mediation, they may come across different terms, titles, and accreditations. One of the most common is FMCA accreditation , which stands for Family Mediation Council Accredited . This blog provides general information about what FMCA accreditation means, why professional standards matter in family mediation, and how this accreditation fits within the wider mediation framework in England and Wales. This blog is for general inf

Separation can be an emotionally demanding time, often involving difficult conversations and uncertainty about the future. One of the most significant and sensitive issues many separating couples face is what happens to the family home . For some, the home represents financial security. For others, it carries emotional meaning, stability, and continuity — particularly where children are involved. This article provides general information about common options relating to th

When parents separate, one of the hardest and most emotionally charged questions is how children should spend their time between two homes. Many parents arrive at discussions — or disputes — with a strong belief that 50:50 shared care is the fairest and safest option. That belief often comes from a very understandable place. Parents worry about: losing time with their children being marginalised or replaced being seen as “less important” fairness and equality what others (in

If you’re going through separation, divorce, or negotiating child arrangements, one of the biggest stumbling blocks for many parents is blame. It colours conversations, traps emotions, and slows progress. It can keep families stuck in patterns of conflict. At Pax Mediation, we understand that letting go of blame isn’t about giving up your feelings or saying “it wasn’t my fault.” It’s about choosing a path that helps everyone move forward, especially the children. Inspired by

When a relationship ends, navigating issues like child arrangements, co-parenting, and finances can feel overwhelming. You might find yourself stuck in fear, regret, or “what ifs.” The documentary Brené Brown: The Call to Courage makes a powerful point: real strength isn’t about avoiding discomfort; it’s about choosing courage over comfort . Understanding Brené Brown's Insights Brené Brown is a renowned research professor, bestselling author, and respected speaker. She is k

It can feel frustrating to receive a C100 court application when you haven’t yet attended mediation. This guide explains why that happens, what it means for you, and how mediation can still help you move forward — even after a C100 has been issued.

We're excited to share that from 1st August 2025 , Pax Mediation will have a new home at Wansbeck Workspace in Ashington . After many happy years in our current office, we’ve outgrown the space. This is a clear sign of the increasing demand for family mediation across the North East. This move gives us room to grow, more flexibility for our team, and an even better environment for the families we support. Why the Move? At Pax, we’re committed to creating safe, welcoming spac

Family conflicts can be emotionally taxing and challenging to resolve. At Pax Mediation, we provide professional conflict resolution for families to help you address disputes constructively, improve communication, and restore harmony. Our accredited FMCA mediators create a safe and neutral environment where all parties feel heard and respected, ensuring that conflicts are resolved with dignity and care. What is Family Conflict Resolution? Family conflict resolution is a struc