Helping families move forward
Supporting families to make informed decisions about children, finances and their future.
after separation
14,000+ Families Supported
50+ Years Combined Experience
FMCA Accredited Family Mediators
Legal Aid & £500 Voucher Scheme Available
Online & In-Person Flexible Appointments
Not Sure What To Do Next?
Separation can feel overwhelming. Most people don't know where to start, what their options are, or whether mediation is right for them.
Our free Separation Roadmap explains the different routes available, helping you understand what happens next, and make informed decisions for your family.
Understanding your options
Finances & property
Mediation & MIAMs
Court proceedings
Sources of support
Child arrangements
What Families Say About Us
"It would have been impossible for us to sort this out on our own and we did not want the formality or expense of solicitors at this stage."
"Sarah-Jane was easy to talk to, explained everything clearly and listened expertly throughout. Highly recommended."
"Laura helped create better communication, regular access with our daughter, and a space where I felt heard."
Pax Mediation is authorised to offer the Ministry of Justice Family Mediation Voucher Scheme, providing up to £500 towards the cost of mediation for families.
Eligible Families Could Receive £500 Towards Mediation
Family Mediation Across the North East & Online
We offer face-to-face appointments across the North East and online throughout England & Wales, making support accessible wherever you are.
Questions We're Often Asked
What is family mediation?
Family mediation is a voluntary process where an impartial family mediator helps separating couples discuss arrangements for children, finances and future communication. Rather than making decisions for you, we help you have productive conversations and reach agreements that work for your family.
Do I have to attend mediation before going to court?
Before making many family court applications, you will usually need to attend a MIAM. Mediation itself remains voluntary, but attending a MIAM is often a legal requirement unless an exemption applies.
What is a MIAM?
A MIAM (Mediation Information and Assessment Meeting) is a private meeting with a family mediator. You'll learn how mediation works, discuss your circumstances and find out whether mediation is suitable for your situation.
What issues can mediation help us resolve?
Mediation can help with:
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Child arrangements
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Holidays and special occasions
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Finances and property
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Pensions and savings
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Communication after separation
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Parenting plans
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Future decision making
Is family mediation legally binding?
The discussions in mediation are confidential and without prejudice. If you reach an agreement, we can prepare the appropriate mediation documents and, where required, your solicitor can help turn agreements into a legally binding Consent Order.
Can we attend online?
Yes. We offer secure online mediation appointments across England and Wales, alongside face-to-face appointments throughout the North East. Many families find online mediation convenient and just as effective.
How quickly can I get an appointment?
We aim to offer MIAM appointments within a few working days wherever possible. If your situation is urgent, please contact us and we'll do our best to arrange the earliest available appointment.
Can we attend if we aren't married?
Yes. Family mediation is available whether you are married, divorced, in a civil partnership or have never been married. We support all families in finding practical solutions for the future.
How much does mediation cost?
Our fees depend on the type of mediation you need. We also offer Legal Aid for eligible clients and many families can access the Ministry of Justice £500 Mediation Voucher Scheme to help with the cost.
What if we don't reach an agreement?
Not every family reaches agreement straight away, but mediation often improves communication and helps narrow the issues. If mediation isn't successful, we'll explain your next options and provide any documentation you need for court if appropriate.