Going through a divorce or separation can be one of the hardest times in a person’s life. A lot of people faced with difficult issues may be tempted to stick their head in the sand. They struggle to cope and one way of dealing, and processing is to pretend it’s not happening, or be in complete denial. There are lots of ways of processing divorce, and denial is one of them. Unfortunately, the practical aspect of getting divorced involves making lots of decisions such as what a