If you’re going through separation, divorce, or negotiating child arrangements, one of the biggest stumbling blocks for many parents is blame. It colours conversations, it traps emotions, it slows progress, and it can keep families stuck in patterns of conflict. At Pax Mediation, we know that letting go of blame isn’t about giving up your feelings or saying “it wasn’t my fault”, it’s about choosing a path that helps  everyone  move forward, especially the children. Inspired by Brené Brown’s...

When a relationship ends and you’re navigating issues like child arrangements, co-parenting, and finances, it might feel like you’re stuck in fear, regret, or stuck in “what ifs”. The documentary   Brené Brown: The Call to Courage   makes a simple but powerful point: real strength isn’t about avoiding discomfort—it’s about  choosing courage over comfort .  Brené Brown is a research professor, bestselling author and globally respected speaker known for her work on vulnerability, courage and...

It can feel frustrating to receive a C100 court application when you haven’t yet attended mediation. This guide explains why that happens, what it means for you, and how mediation can still help you move forward — even after a C100 has been issued.