A MIAM is a meeting with a mediator to:
explore whether mediation could help you resolve issues without going to court
understand your options
obtain the correct court certificate if mediation isn't appropriate or doesn't go ahead.
What We'll Talk About
Children
Living arrangements, time with each parent and what's best for your children.
Finances
An overview of financial issues and how they can be resolved.
Court
When court might be necessary and the process involved.
Mediation
How mediation works and how it can help you reach agreement.
Safety
We'll always consider safety and ensure appropriate support
is in place.
Legal Aid
Information about eligibility for Legal Aid and available funding options.
Frequently Asked Questions
What is a MIAM?
A MIAM (Mediation Information and Assessment Meeting) is an individual meeting with a family mediator. It gives you the opportunity to learn about mediation, discuss your situation and explore whether mediation is suitable for you and your family.
How long does a MIAM take?
A MIAM typically lasts around 45 minutes, giving you plenty of time to discuss your circumstances and ask questions.
What happens after the MIAM?
If mediation is suitable and everyone agrees to take part, we'll arrange mediation sessions. If mediation isn't appropriate, we'll explain your other options and, where necessary, provide the documentation you may need for court.
Can I attend a MIAM online?
Yes. We offer MIAMs online via secure video appointment, as well as face-to-face at our North East offices.
Will the mediator take sides?
No. Family mediators are impartial. Their role is to help you understand your options and, if mediation proceeds, facilitate constructive discussions. They don't take sides or make decisions for you.
Do we attend the MIAM together?
No. MIAMs are usually held separately, so you'll have your own confidential meeting with the mediator before the other person is invited to attend their MIAM.
Is attending a MIAM compulsory?
If you're making certain applications to the Family Court, you'll usually need to attend a MIAM unless an exemption applies, such as domestic abuse or urgency. Even if court isn't being considered, many people choose to attend a MIAM to understand their options.
Can I get Legal Aid for a MIAM?
Yes. If you're eligible for Legal Aid, your MIAM will usually be free. If one person qualifies for Legal Aid, the other person's MIAM may also be funded, even if they aren't financially eligible themselves.
What should I bring to my MIAM?
You don't need to prepare anything special. If your case involves finances, it can be helpful to have a general understanding of your financial situation. We'll explain everything you need during the meeting.
How much does a MIAM cost?
Our current private MIAM fee is £140 online or £150 face-to-face. If you're eligible for Legal Aid, your MIAM may be free of charge.
Why Families Choose Pax Mediation
14,000+ Families Supported
50+ Years Combined Experience
FMCA Accredited Family Mediators
Legal Aid & £500 Voucher Scheme Available
Online & In-Person Flexible Appointments
What Our Clients Say
"I was really nervous before my MIAM, but my mediator immediately put me at ease. I left feeling much clearer about my options and what would happen next."
"The MIAM helped me understand that going to court wasn't my only option. It was informative, supportive and there was no pressure to make any decisions on the day."
"I expected the meeting to be intimidating, but it was simply a conversation. Everything was explained clearly, and I felt listened to throughout."